Here I sit, in the waiting room at the Doctor’s office. I completely forgot to bring anything to do while I was here.
Usually, I will bring my laptop computer so that I can either get my blog post written or if there is wireless (Hallelujah!) I can check email! Or, I will bring that large stack of papers that the school insists I sign and fill out each and every year for each and every child!
What I definitely do NOT do, is find myself someplace with 10 minutes to spare and nothing to do.
And yet, here I sit, thinking. It’s actually quite nice.
I reach over to grab a magazine. Instead of going for Forbes, I grab a trashy celebrity magazine filled with young fresh faces and lots of gossip. As much as I hope no one saw me pick up this delicious treat, I am luxuriating in the thrill of spending my time doing nothing of any importance.
Then I begin to think about my assumption that sitting and reading a gossip magazine or talking to the hairdresser while in the chair instead of blogging (because they do have wifi – hallelujah!) isn’t important.
While it is true that efficiency buys me more time with my family at the end of the day and more opportunity to participate in school activities, all work and no play make me a dull girl. When taken to extremes, it can lead to sleepless nights, temper loss and eating too much chocolate.
So here I sit writing this article while getting a pedicure. But two days ago, when I was waiting for my daughter at the dance studio, I sat and talked to another mother. Turns out we have a lot in common and I never would have learned that had I been sitting there with my Blackberry on overdrive.
So what’s the point?
I guess for me it is a case of “everything in moderation.” Take your computer, blackberry and paper work with you when you are on the go. But every so often, just sit and see what happens.
Coach Me Quick Tips for “sitting this one out.”
1. When you have the opportunity to either be ultra efficient OR relaxed, ask yourself the question; “what do I need right now?” You may need to sit and stare into space, have an inconsequential conversation or read a tabloid. Give yourself what you need.
2. Acknowledge yourself for the times that you are efficient AND when you are not as efficient. Both are worthwhile. Try to strike a balance that works for you.
3. Remember something that is hard to remember at times; anything that needs to get done, will get done. Trust yourself.
Sitting this one out,
Jamee